Since its been bugging my, I'm gonna break down her logic.
1. I don't want to see you anymore
Why?
A. We argue
Question Why do we argue?
Her Answers:
A. Our Personality Clash
B. I'm to sensentive
Reasons of why I think based on evidence and facts that be can accounted for and measured:
A. Constantly forgets to call back(or chooses not to), espeically when plans are made.
B. Lies. Calls them white lies but seems to not know the boundaries and its all ok.
C. Justification for everything she does, instead of admitting she is wrong.
D. Only apologizes after thoroughly loosing an arguement or not at all
E. Does things to instigate an arguement.
F. Does things to embroil arguements(ex: silent treament when she knows I hate that)
G. Takes advice from friends with little or no experience or biased friends.
H. Hates being wrong and will not see if she ever does anything aka irresonsibly of ones actions and the following consequences(in her mind there should be none)
I. Has yet to try to correct any of her behaviours that cause fights.
K. Hard time reconilling after aka can't get over things.
Observations: She is more sensitive than me, but she doesn't realize it. I realized that a while back through arguements that she is very sensitive to being blamed and it sends it her into a state of passive aggresive. Possibly of studying further is plausable. I know she doesn't want to admit to doing anything wrong because when she returned and we started talking, I would say the things I did wrong and she was all to happy to agree. But she wouldn't dare comment on any of her actions being wrong at all. In her mind, she will always be right, even if I told someone like Pastor Dan, in which I might because a good guy to talk too. So I think I really might talk to Pastor Dan, seems like a good idea so I can see what he thinks from his perspective.
Conclusion: It will be hard for us to be friends because of her way of dealing with situations. Worst of them is she has yet to learn how to mitigate and when not to fight. Her reasons for not want to be friends with my anymore is because I make her responsible for her actions and she hates that. There is no such thing a personaility clashing, sensetivity and respect are two different things. Everything really falls in your camp.
Analysis Complete. Logical Flaw is Evident.
Wednesday, August 08, 2007
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